If you did not attend the rally, in the comment section, please vote for the rally experience that you would most like to personally enjoy.

Rally participants please feel free to share experiences I may have missed.  Especially address how you personally experienced the rally.

We accepted one another unconditionally.

We talked to our inner kids and our higher selves as we gloriously expressed our badass selves.

We jointly created a very safe yet interestingly, a very wild, supportive environment.

We realized that over 90% of us have always believed that we were destined for greatness.

True Callings were evolved, validated and discovered.

Agreements of next step actions were made.

We sang songs of unconditional acceptance and wealthy body cells.

We followed some rules and broke many at will, as we celebrated the deep value in nonconformity.

Tears of self-worth and authentic discovery were shed.

We declared our independence from cultural conditioning.

We witnessed or experienced two male to female chest bumps.  The same female gloriously accepted both bumps and stood her ground!

We enjoyed lots and lots of sincere hugging.

We openly discussed the elephants in the room.

Palpable emotions of deep connection and well wishing were both given and received by all.

We witnessed Spontaneous Declarations of Callings.

We meditated together.

We challenged one another.

We discussed how money moves.

We laughed frequently.

We reconnected our natural links between authenticity and abundance by immersing ourselves in 360-degree aliveness.

The facilitator announced a break-the-law party.

We sang and stomped our feet.

We championed the glory of individuality.

We ate gourmet pizza, apples and tangerines.

We stepped demonstratively over the Big Balls line of true calling as we were saluted and celebrated for the most enthusiastic aspect of our true selves.

We recognized the authentic spark of pure potentiality within us all.

We validated one another and unconditionally accepted each other’s authentic self.

We were inspired by many quotes, among them:

What is meant for you can’t be lost.  Kim George

Fear of looking like a fool will keep you from getting what you want.  Egbert Sukop

We learned how speed and confidence creates success.

We met heard from Poker Face, Cheerleader, Glitter Girl, Action Man and Wild Man.

We came to understand that our dearest right livelihood idea has come straight from the heart of God to our own recognition of it.

We rallied around our mutual authentic rebellion.

We really “got” the power of our original blessing of uniqueness.

We came to believe that, I am enough.  You are enough.

We participated in group EFT tapping while declaring: “I’m a bas ass mother-fucker.”

We loved one another.

We realized how really powerful each individual really is.

We celebrated one another.

We saluted one another.

We became sisters and brothers dedicated to the ongoing support of our individual dreams and authentic pursuits.

I wish you were with us.  Actual video footage to come.  Next event is a worldwide virtual rally.  Stay tuned for date and details.

My biggest surprise in this adventure of creating and promoting the Big Link Rally has been how challenging it’s been to get you on the phone to talk about your calling.

Everyone who has enrolled so far has spent some time with me in conversation. This is a big step that’s made much easier in forthright dialogue.   To birth a calling it’s essential to engage in frequent conversation with your authentic self. As your temporary coach, I fill the role of speaking as your calling, from the stronger side of you, so that you can hear more than your fears.

I asked myself.  ” What makes you hesitate?”  If I were promoting a conference for muscle car enthusiasts and you really cared about muscle cars, we would have already talked.  Many times.

Yet callings are different.  Even though we are called to serve others; the call feels very personal.  Callings are about faith, stepping into the unknown and being who you are.  I get that.

I understand that you’re afraid – that’s why we need to talk so you can appreciate another perspective.  Bouncing around in your own monkey mind is like trying to open a jar with your hands lathered in bacon grease.  Talking to yourself won’t make it easier.

So far it’s like I’m standing at the head of a classroom and you raise your hand to ask a question or make a comment.  Then I ask a question in return or simply ask that we talk about it after class and you run away never to be heard from again.

Callings are about engagement.   It’s best to engage with someone who cares about you.  My mission, to end vocational confusion and it’s accompanying under earning, qualifies me as someone who really cares about you.   In fact I can’t fulfill my calling without you.

So why do you hesitate?  I’d love to know.   I’m going to take some guesses below to see if I can calm your concerns and encourage you to engage in a powerfully authentic conversation all about you and your calling.

I know it seems a little silly that we have to drag you to the discussion that will change your life.   Don’t feel bad, some are led but most are dragged to their destinies.

My Guesses

Are you afraid you’ll end up being sold something? I’ll not do that. This conversation is about you and your calling.   If you’re a fit for the Rally you’ll be able to see that.  Like trying on jeans they either fit or they don’t. You’ll not be pressured to struggle into anything.

Are you afraid that I’ll ask a question you can’t yet answer? That could happen but I’ll not judge you in any way for where you are.  However the question you can’t answer because you don’t yet want to, is the very trail of crumbs that will lead you to your calling.

Is it because you don’t want to fly into Pittsburgh in January? I wouldn’t either unless this Rally is the only place I could get what I wanted. This excuse will be no good after January because then an invitation to my first virtual rally will be on the table.

Are you concerned that you’ll waste my time? You can’t waste my time.  How I spend it is my choice and since you’ve stepped up, you’re the person I most want to engage.  You’re more wasting your time by raising your hand and then running from the connection.

Are you afraid that we can’t talk because you don’t have enough money? This talk isn’t a consultation for sale.  It’s a sincere invitation to discuss your calling.  The money appears when the path is right and it doesn’t necessarily need to appear from you. (I’m offering generous partial scholarships and all you need to do is ask.)

Are you afraid to trust another with your dearest dreams and fears? Our conversation is confidential and you’ll leave feeling more empowered than you came.  You’ll trust yourself more after our talk because you’ll have received the gift of clarity.

Are you hesitant because the distance in hiding behind an online curtain means you really aren’t putting yourself out there? Are you concerned that by having a real conversation you might be compelled to actually do something about your calling? Callings are very big deals but they require ongoing, vigilant conversation, reflection, observation, discernment and decision.

Making the bold decision, to have a conversation with someone who cares about you and your calling, is the beginning of honoring your path.

You can’t follow a path that you won’t honor.

Are you concerned that I’m some religious nut who will push beliefs that are inauthentic to you? My calling process is a spiritual approach not a religious one.   The only requirement for this is your willingness to go within to find your own wisdom.  Your deep meaning most certainly isn’t found outside of your inner guidance so that’s the only pushing I do.   I strongly suggest that you go within in order to do it your way.

Or are you hiding behind the details and busyness of life while hoping you can use the holidays, family obligations or other excuses to pretend a while longer that you don’t have a calling?

That’s it folks.  I’m out of guesses. It’s your turn to come forth and tell the truth of where you are.

I know, the truth that sets you free will first piss you off.   However the lies that you hide behind will kill you.   It’s your call.  Let’s talk about it. 724-823-0317